The friend zone is a pretty dreaded place for most people. When you like someone and when you want to take your relationship with them to the next level, it can be pretty disappointing when they turn you down and state that they only want to be friends.
Sure, you spent so long crushing on this person and trying to get to know them better just to have them say they want to be nothing more than friends. But of course, everyone has their reasons for putting others in the friend zone. Or sometimes, people are so friendly and flirty that they accidentally lead others onbut they actually have no intentions of entering a romantic relationship.
On the bright side, you two are still friends.
And is friendship really so bad? If you want to find out which zodiac signs are most likely to put you in the friend zone, continue reading below. You might feel flattered and assume that she likes you. Some may mistake her niceness for romantic interest, but she probably already has her eye on someone else. A Capricorn is someone who has too many responsibilities in her life to be able to commit fully to a relationship. An Aquarius tends to run from emotional expression.
If you tell her that you are interested in being more than her friend, she will react with skepticism. She is worried about your intentions and whether or not you are actually trustworthy, so she will likely just reject you and suggest being platonic friends.
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Most people fall for her ridiculously sweet personality. If you confess your love to her, she will likely suggest just sticking as friends. If you have a crush on a Sagittarius, be careful. She is very unlikely to return your interest.Being single is hard, and even if you go on a few dates, you still don't know if he sees you as "the one" or where the relationship is heading.
Luckily we have astrology to guide us in finding the answers we need. For instance, his signs can tell us the type of girl he wants to marry and who he only lusts for. The girl he's attracted to may not be marriage material and just someone who he dates for a while.Sagittarius woman Dec 30- Jan 5: IN THE FRIEND ZONE OR IN THE END ZONE?
The type of wife his looking for will likely depend on his sign, and the main things he's looking for are personality, loyalty, and someone who can take care of him. Guys tend to have certain qualities that they lust after like the way you dress or even a certain hairstyle or hair color. Guys also like it if you have the same interests as them. Of course, some signs are just too incompatible romantically but will work well as friends. Don't expect him to be your boyfriend as he'll only see you as his friend who he can hang out with and be comfortable around.
Read on for the girl he'll want to spend forever with, who he lusts for, and who he just sees as his buddy. The Bull likes the finer things in life such as fine dining and art.
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He'll want someone who has similar tastes. Therefore, the wife he's looking for must have the same appreciation for the luxuries of food and fragrances. He also admires a woman who is confident and can cheer him up when he's down. You must have a cheerful nature because he wants someone who'll make him happy without having to tell you what he needs. If you have these qualities, he'll be head over heels for you.
He's very active and fiery as Aries is one of the most vibrant signs. The girl he'll lust for is a mystery. Aries likes not knowing precisely what she's thinking as he loves solving puzzles and you'll be a puzzle he needs to solve. An Aries man wants surprises, and you'll need to keep him guessing every day. Beauty is essential to him as well; he's attracted to red lipstick and high heels. Therefore, if you want his attention, you may want to dress up! If you're a Libra, he'll see you more as a friend as he can relate to you regarding art, creativity, and laughter.
Therefore, he won't be able to handle social gatherings all the time. Pisces is an emotional sign, and he won't be able to control your frustration regarding he's moody nature.
As friends, it won't frustrate you as much, and fighting won't occur.At least with the airplane situation though, you know what those signals mean. Guys, on the other hand, have the ability make everything confusing, like when he friend zones you. Because of this, women have to become relationship super-sleuths in order to decipher how a man feels about them. Perhaps the worse of these is when you can pretty much assume that a man likes you, and then all of a sudden, he completely changes gears and leaves us stranded in what is commonly referred to as the friend-zone.
Yes, the dreaded friend-zone. Unfortunately, a man can suddenly take a degree turn when it is least expected. Perhaps the two of had slept together, and then the next time you see him he pulls a friend-zone move on you. You may have even been sleeping together for a while, and then he tells you all about these three dates he had with this other girl and asks for your advice on the situation.
The Aries man loves competition and especially showing off for the person he is interested in. If you notice that he stops trying to impress you, then that's his way of signaling that he wants to put you in the friend-zone.
Maybe he used to brag about his success at work, would show off a special skill, or loved to share exciting information like the fact that he did all these amazing marathons overseas. When he stops doing things like that, it means he doesn't want to impress you anymore, because he wants to be just friends. A Taurus man loves touch and physical connection. This is especially true for anyone he likes.
When he's into you, he'll let you know by doing things like touching your hand, holding you, initiating holding hands with you, or taking longer hugs when you greet each other. It's when he stops initiating these moments of genuine physical connection and contact that he is friend-zoning you. Another signal to look out for is when he is way more calm when other guys approach you, since a Taurus tends to be possessive. If you don't notice him minding much, then that's another way he's showing that he wants to just be friends.
A Gemini guy loves conversation. He is sociable, expressive but also very thoughtful and affectionate. This means he loves to have engaging, deep conversations with someone he likes. If he suddenly seems uninterested or likes to keep them brief, then he is definitely letting you know that he prefers to be friends.
One of the traits of a Cancer is that they are attached to the people around them, which is related to the fact that this type of guy is more sentimental and emotional.
When he really likes a girl, he will want to open up to her about his life and keep her close. If he decides to start putting you in the friend-zone though, he's going to become much more detached from you. If you try to ask him about his family or anything important in his personal life, he'll remain closed off and not want to talk about it.
Leos are major flirts and love being the center of attention. They have a lot of passion but are also generous, funny, and warm-hearted.
If a Leo man is friend-zoning someone, he's going to start being more rude when it comes to his manners.Capricorn men are very picky and have their own set of morals. What does this mean when it comes to dating women? Is your Capricorn man just using you?
Read on to find out. When a Capricorn engages with a woman, he is like any other man. Remember, this man has a set of morals of his own that he follows. Hearing that should actually ring a bell for you thus letting you know where his head is at. In fact, if he says this, you should ask him what he thinks you two are and where he sees it going. As with other men, Capricorn man is no different when it comes to opening up and talking.
That takes time for him. That being said, he will refrain from telling a woman his deepest darkest secrets. She will be lucky if she even can find out what he does for a living or what his zodiac sign is. He will keep most information from her. When a Capricorn man is into someone, he will actually spend time making her feel special.
He will buy her nice things, take her nice places, and have some really intimate conversations of the non-sexual variety. Normally a Capricorn man only wants to engage in sex with someone that means something to him or that he feels COULD mean something to him.
He could be sitting right next to you yet be a million miles away. To learn more about Capricorn man and his needs, click here. This sum everything up down 2 a tee.
Cause i love him. Hi Nesha! They are complicated and depending on the woman, they may be quite a handful. We are both divorced and I have two kids, he has one. He is resisting to introduce me to his kid. He has never taken me out not once.
Whenever I insist on going out or visiting him at his place he gets upset.
I tried ending the relationship but he claims that he loves me and can not accept the end of the relationship,I must give him time to sort things out. Sweetheart He is NOT that into you. My dad is a Cap and this article is spot on! This is a man of action.I don't think there are enough words in the dictionary to describe the aftermath of rejection when you have been friend zoned.
Like, I'm super crushing on you, thought I played all of my cards right, and when I went up to bat, I struck out?! This is not how is happens in the movies. We've all been there, but you probably never considered the reason you're getting friend zoned based on your zodiac sign, because you're still thinking about the way their cologne or perfume smelled when you hugged them. Stay with me, now. Hey, I thought the stars were supposed to work in our favor? There are pros and cons to everything, and those cons basically conspire against you and leave you hanging in the wind, aka, the friend zone.
Friend zoning shouldn't be a one-sided thing. Can we talk about this before you irrationally place me in a platonic oblivion that's basically inescapable? Clearly, you can confide in me like a friend, but what if I want to suck face and do all of the mushy stuff, too?
And since our zodiacs educate us on our day-to-day ventures, there's no reason why they can't decipher the friend zone blues as well. These aren't things to get too caught up over, because you are amazing just the way you are, ladies. But, there are some things that might be keeping you on the sidelines, even when you want to be in the game.
Carefree, energetic, and spontaneous — that's all you, Aries. So, what's wrong? Those are also beloved qualities of a friend, and unless you spill the beans about how you feel, you may very well be trailblazing towards the friend zone instead of the end zone.
Those qualities will make many people gravitate towards you, Aries. But if things don't click romantically with someone, then it's in your best interest to move on.
Everything happens for a reason, after all. You're reliable AF, Aquarius. Get a call at 2 a. You are there before they even hang up the phone. And because you're so patient, you'll wait, but don't go waiting on a thing that has no promise. Someone else tremendously deserves your dedication. The thought of liking this person is what tugs you back and forth, Gemini. You show them two different sides because you're really just not sure, and that's OK.
To keep the relationship damage under control, you may be friend zoned because it's a safe place to keep you and your indecisiveness.
Not everything's a sure thing, though, and if this person can't be patient with you, you're better off pursuing someone else. Cancer, some of your emotions may make you jump the gun a little bit. You care about this person, and therefore they have access to your sensitive side, but you may read too into Netflix and chill sessions at times.
If it's meant to be, it will be.Why is your Capricorn man holding back? Keep reading to learn as much as you can about this confusing and difficult to figure out guy. Capricorn man wants to be friends first and foremost. Capricorn men tend to take their time when they commit. He wants to be loved for who he is and wants to love a woman for who she is. There is no way to know for sure if someone is who they say they are without time elapsing and getting to know one another fully.
That being the case, sometimes Capricorn will step back to see how you respond to him. Capricorn men will become despondent or even distant if they are not interested. Take it at face value. As such, he will blow you off for anything more than just a friendship. Only those that are young or inexperienced will not know what to do with themselves thus resulting in a Capricorn male who backs off when he gets too close to someone.
So beware of the brooding in silence types. He is who he is and only HE can change it. His past will often dictate much of what he decides in his life for the future. Just like you, he may have been hurt or had difficult times. He just takes longer to recover than many. He has to be sure and then be sure some more. Capricorn men are typically into women that are independent and know what they want from a man. In this case, you may want to speak up and make it known what you want.
Make sure he understands you want something more with him. Something else you need to know is why a Capricorn man would pull himself back and go quiet on you. As ridiculous as it may seem, he sometimes does this if he really likes someone. He fears what could happen if he keeps trying to build something and so it makes him have a knee jerk reaction.
He will pull back and need to think things through some more. The Capricorn man goes quiet when he needs to reflect and figure out if this is going to be something he will grow or something he should walk away from. That is why he takes so much time to figure things out. Capricorn man distancing himself is a normal phenomenon. You have to learn how to court him and allow him to be the man he is as far as doing things his way. Speaking of his way, did you know that alluring actor Kevin Costner is actually a Capricorn man?
He is tall, sexy, and smoldering for sure! Has your patience paid off and your Capricorn man took the plunge?I know that not all would agree with the astrological influence in our life, but I do, so my question is directed to those that feels the same. No ofense. Just being clear to not start debates. Now, to the point. I think it is more of a platonic relationship. I feel he trust me a lot. You know, all the stories about falling for a friend, and the friendzone, etc.
What I want from you is to hear stories of how you get in a relationship with your capricorn man. I know that they are difficult to open and to get into a relationship. So, please, whatever help will be very appreciated. Please, help me get out of the friendzone with this man! All you need is his date of birth, place and time of birth. But when things are difficult, we cam both clam up and communication can be difficult.
Sometimes we were just friends, sometimes FWB. I remember telling a friend that I liked him and she said I should pursue it but actually he did and asked me on a date!
From really liking him to being in a relationship took 3 years, although mainly because I was away at university. I knew my guy liked me but he never actually said the words for years. I would focus on that if I were you. He will value the fact you are someone he can really talk to and be open with. I also found my capricorn was much more relaxed after a few drinks!
That always got him opening up and becoming flirtatious so you could try taking him out to a bar? And he also seems to have a hard time to commit or to find a relationship. I think that the point in here is to be very patient, right?
I am a Capricorn and my Capricorn ex started as a friend. He observed me for two months I never noticed him before even talking to me. Then he started finding reasons not plausible ones to contact me and be around me. Reputation, stature and intelligence were important to him and he found ways of ascertaining each of those things about me from others before approaching me. He was laid back but fun. Work and family life were of the utmost importance to him and he saw that I valued those as well.
I agree that they are cautious and take their time about things. If you have known him for a bit I would agree with Hannah that you find some way to unwrap his feelings because Caps might need to be prodded a bit or given a green light before they reveal their feelings for you. I kept on dating and having relationships during that time. I suggest you do the same and not focus solely on him.
So take him out and show him a good time. Yes you want to be open with each other but also you want to light any potential sparks. So a mix of fun and openness is a good idea.